“How do I tell my kids about the divorce?” This fear and concern about breaking the news to the kids is a major concern for most parents. You may postpone the divorce process or even avoid informing your spouse you … Read More
Joint Custody 50 / 50 Parenting Schedules The joint custody parenting schedule you use, if you have agreed to equally share parenting time, may depend on the children’s age and temperament, and the parent’s work schedules. There are two primary … Read More
You have submitted all the necessary legal divorce forms to the court. While you may be worn out from the effort, there are many post-divorce tasks that do not happen automatically. This article summarizes what to do after your divorce. … Read More
Ideas for Divorce Rituals: The Primary Questions Honoring the end of a marriage through a divorce ritual or ceremony (or breakup ritual) expresses a commitment to taking care of your own heart and mind. It helps you process the entire … Read More
Divorce Ritual: Why is it Important? Why would you want to do a divorce ritual or divorce ceremony? Let’s consider the following comments, which are frequently heard by counselors from their divorced clients: “I’ve done plenty of counseling and grieving, … Read More
What should I do with my wedding ring after divorce, or during the divorce? This question can touch on the financial, emotional, and logistical aspects of divorce or legal separation. This question of what to do with the wedding ring … Read More
Custody schedule exchanges (parenting time transitions) are ripe with opportunities for conflict between the parents. Yet, numerous studies have demonstrated that parental conflict is the most damaging aspect of a divorce for children. Whether you are in the middle of … Read More
“Who gets the house in a divorce?” is one of the most emotionally charged issues with the division of property in a divorce. Amidst the sense of loss, worry about the children’s well-being and your own economic stability, you may … Read More
Do you want to file for your Oregon divorce online, or by completing printed forms? You have several options. If you are working with a lawyer, they will usually advise that they file the Oregon divorce forms for you. Lawyers … Read More
This “Signs You Need a Divorce Quiz” won’t make your decision, or tell you when to get a divorce. Yet, it outlines some common signs you need a divorce. More importantly, you can clarify your reasons for a divorce or … Read More